ABOUT US
Hi & welcome. I'm Nicky, the face behind Radiance Voyage
I’m also Your guide to breaking free from burnout and reclaiming your radiance.
I’d like to share a little bit about my journey, from standing exhausted in my kitchen to waking up every day feeling whole again. Maybe my story will sound familiar to you. I’m happy you found me here.
I believe in getting to know each other before we dive into transformation work together, so let me turn the table and share a few things about myself first.
A LITTLE ABOUT ME TODAY
I am a mother of three—my two older children and a toddler who has more energy than I thought humanly possible (and calls “Mommy!” about a hundred times a minute), if you know what that means (LOL).
I’ve spent 15 plus years in the airlines industry, working with VIP clients and learning the art of creating exceptional experiences. I’m also a Wellness Travel Consultant, fluent in French, and deeply passionate about transformational travel, health & wellness, nervous system healing, and what I call “Blue Zone living”, creating environments where women thrive.
I love nothing more than helping women understand the difference between masculine and feminine energy, learning to rest without the crushing guilt, and building morning rituals that literally transform everything. I’m super passionate about my faith, my fitness, and most of all, my mindset. I try my best to live every day as mindfully and consciously as possible (still learning, always learning).
I can confidently say that every single decision I’ve made, the good ones and the really painful ones has led me to this exact moment. I’m grateful for the hard seasons because they taught me what I needed to break the cycle. And now? I wake up each day excited to help women reclaim their radiance and create lives that feel as good as they look. It gives me so much clarity, joy, and fulfillment, and I’m making it happen every single day.
I’ve been helping women transform through feminine energy work, nervous system regulation, and yes, transformational travel experiences that reset your soul. I support women at every stage, whether you have children or not, whether you’re married or single, whether you’re just starting to question things or you’re absolutely done and ready for massive change.
Witnessing the women I work with step into their power and radiance? That’s what keeps me going. That’s my fuel.
MY JOURNEY: FROM EXHAUSTION TO RADIANCE
Well, here’s the thing,
We ALL have a story, a past, strengths, and weaknesses that shape us. And I am no different.
I grew up in West Africa, where I learned very early that a woman’s worth is tied directly to what she does for others. How well she cooks. How clean her house is. How much she can carry without complaining.
My mother carried the weight of the world. She was in a painful marriage, dealing with trauma she never learned to process, her own mother died when she was just five years old, so she had no model for how to navigate her feelings. I watched her sink deeper and deeper into depression. I remember the last time I took her to the doctor, and she was prescribed a depression medication.
I watched my mother fade away. She died too soon, exhausted and depleted, never having lived for herself.
And growing up, with my father? The yelling, the screaming, the constant feeling that I was never enough, it taught me to look for validation from men. It taught me that if I could just be the “good girl,” if I could just do enough, give enough, be enough… then I would finally be loved.
That belief followed me into every relationship I ever had.
I got married. Then we divorced.
And then, because I thought it was best for the kids, because I thought I could make it work, because I didn’t know any better, I remarried the same man.
Some things never change. The princess was still relaxing in bed. Still comfortable while I carried absolutely everything.
And then I had my third baby. A beautiful, energetic, amazing toddler who brought so much joy into my life.
But now I had even MORE to do. And him? Still taking. Still not seeing how depleted I was. Still not recognizing that I was drowning.
And here’s what really gutted me: the message he was sending our children.
My sons were watching their father relax while their mother ran herself ragged.
What was I teaching them about how to treat women?
That women do everything while men coast? That women prove their worth by giving until there’s nothing left?
That was NOT the message I wanted them to carry forward.
Then came a Sunday Afternoon That Broke Me Open
I will never, ever forget this moment.
It was a Sunday afternoon. I had just come back from working out, trying to take care of my body, trying to do something for myself. I came home and immediately started cooking dinner because, you know, that’s what I did. My toddler was running circles around the kitchen calling “Mommy! Mommy! Mommy!” nonstop. Pots were boiling over. The kitchen was complete chaos.
I was visibly exhausted.
He came home. He looked at me. He saw the chaos. He saw how tired I was, how overwhelmed I was.
And you know what he did?
He grabbed a cup of juice and a piece of cake from the counter, turned around, and walked upstairs to take a bath.
To relax. To lay down. Waiting for me to finish cooking so he could come back down, eat the meal I made, and then go back to relaxing.
Standing There, Something Shifted
I stood there with tears streaming down my face.
And I thought: “Is this really going to be my life for the next 5 years? 10 years? 15 years?”
“I don’t have my mother here to help me. I don’t have a sister nearby. I’m completely alone in this marriage.”
I was essentially a single mother—with a husband in the house.
I looked at my life in that moment and I just knew, deep in my bones: Something HAS to change.
I couldn’t keep being a doormat. I couldn’t keep disappearing in my own life. I couldn’t keep modeling this for my children.
He had taken too much from me. And I had LET him.
That was the moment I decided to start caring for myself on another level!
DISCOVERING WHAT I DIDN'T KNOW
I Had Been Operating In The Wrong Energy My Entire Life
Through my healing journey, reading, learning, working with mentors, doing the deep inner work, I discovered something that literally changed everything:
I had been operating in masculine energy 24/7.
Doing. Controlling. Providing. Proving my worth. Fixing everyone’s problems. Hustling without rest.
And I had trained the men in my life to operate in feminine energy, receiving, relaxing, taking.
Here’s what no one ever told me: That’s backwards.
I thought being a “good woman” meant doing everything. I thought that’s how you show love. I thought that’s how you earn your place.
But I was doing HIS job. And he was doing MINE.
Here’s what I learned, and it was absolutely life-changing:
Masculine energy is about: Doing, providing, protecting, leading, pursuing, giving
Feminine energy is about: Receiving, trusting, flowing, being, resting, allowing
A healthy relationship—a healthy LIFE—requires both energies in their proper balance.
When a woman operates in masculine energy all the time, her body holds onto weight because it’s stressed. She’s anxious constantly because her nervous system never feels safe. She attracts men who take instead of give because she’s TRAINED them to do that. And she teaches her children that this exhausting model is normal.
When I finally learned to shift into my feminine energy, when I learned to receive instead of always giving, to rest instead of always doing, to trust instead of always controlling, everything transformed.
HOW I TRANSFORMED: ONE POWERFUL QUESTION
“What Does SHE Need?”
I started asking myself one question every single morning:
“What does the radiant version of me need today?”
Not the exhausted version who’s running on fumes and resentment. Not the people-pleasing version who says yes when she means no. Not the version who feels guilty every time she sits down.
The radiant version. The highest version of myself. The woman I know I was created to be.
And here’s what I discovered: She already exists. I didn’t need to become her someday. She was already there, just waiting for me to tap into her through small, aligned actions every single day.
When I committed to this practice, when I started actually giving myself what I needed, here’s what happened:
✨ I stopped feeling crushing guilt every time I rested
✨ I started setting boundaries and stopped apologizing for them
✨ I said “no” without needing to explain or justify
✨ I stopped training him to be the princess
✨ I started receiving instead of constantly giving
✨ My anxiety melted away (I didn’t even realize how anxious I’d been)
✨ My body finally healed and the weight I’d been carrying dropped off
✨ I started attracting respect instead of settling for crumbs
✨ My children started seeing a completely different model of womanhood
✨ I broke the cycle that had been repeating for generations
Through all of this, the deepest truth I discovered was this:
My worth is not tied to what I do for other people. My worth is rooted in who God says I am.
I am a daughter of the Most High. I am already loved, already valued, already worthy, not because of what I accomplish or how much I give or how well I perform.
I don’t have to prove anything to anyone. And neither do you.
“Delight yourself in the Lord, and He will give you the desires of your heart.” – Psalm 37:4
WHY I DO THIS WORK NOW
For My Mother, For My Children, For Every Woman Who Feels Invisible
My mother couldn’t break free from the patterns that held her. She died carrying generations of unhealed pain.
But I can break free. And I am.
And now I’ve made it my life’s work to help other women do the same, not just for themselves, but for their children, for their daughters, for their sons, for the generations that come after them.
Because Your Children Are Watching
If you have sons, they’re learning how to treat women by watching how their father treats you. They’re learning what’s “normal” and what they can expect women to tolerate.
If you have daughters, they’re learning their worth by watching how YOU value yourself. They’re learning whether it’s okay to rest, whether it’s okay to have boundaries, whether it’s okay to choose themselves.
What message are you sending them right now?
You deserve to wake up feeling FULL instead of empty.
You deserve a partner who gives to you, not just takes from you.
You deserve to rest without the guilt eating you alive.
You deserve to feel radiant and alive in your own body.
You deserve to stop disappearing.
This isn’t selfish. This isn’t too much to ask. This is your birthright as a woman, as a daughter of God.
HOW I CAN SUPPORT YOUR TRANSFORMATION
Digital Guides: Start Your Journey Today
Have you ever wished someone would just hand you a roadmap? Tell you exactly what to do to start feeling better, thinking clearer, showing up differently?
That’s what these guides are. They’re not fluffy theory, they’re practical, actionable tools you can start using TODAY to shift your energy and reclaim your radiance.
The Radiance Activation Method™ (Coming Soon!)
This is my signature self-paced course where I teach you everything I’ve learned about breaking the cycle and becoming the radiant woman you were created to be.
90-Day Radiance & Glow Mastery Experience
This is my high-touch, deeply personal 1-on-1 coaching program. This is where we break the cycle together, for good.
If you’re exhausted from doing everything while he does nothing… if you’re tired of feeling invisible in your own life… if you want to break generational patterns not just for yourself but for your children… this is for you.
Radiance Voyage Retreats: Travel As Transformation
I believe travel heals your soul in ways nothing else can. Getting out of your regular environment, being in nature, being held by sisterhood, having space to just BE—it’s transformational.
As a certified travel agent with 15 years in the airline industry, I curate luxury wellness retreats designed specifically for women like us who need to reset, restore, and remember who we are.
Not Sure Where To Start? Take The Free Quiz
Discover your unique Radiance Archetype in just 2 minutes—are you The Exhausted Giver? The Anxious Achiever? The Invisible Warrior?
Get your personalized roadmap based on YOUR specific pattern.
YOUR QUESTIONS, HONESTLY ANSWERED
Q:Am I really ready for this?
Here’s what I know: if you’re reading this page right now, you’re ready. You might not FEEL ready, most women don’t feel ready when they start. But if you’ve been trying to change things on your own and it’s not working, if you’re exhausted from carrying everything, if you know deep down that something has to shift… that’s readiness.
Transformation is scary. Change is uncomfortable. That’s exactly why I’m here, to walk beside you through it. You don’t have to do this alone anymore.
Q:How is coaching different from therapy?
I love this question because both are valuable, just in different ways.
Therapy typically focuses on healing past wounds, understanding where patterns came from, processing trauma. It’s about looking backward to understand yourself better.
Coaching focuses on creating your desired future. It’s about identifying what’s holding you back RIGHT NOW and taking aligned action to become who you want to be. It’s forward-focused.
I help you see the patterns clearly, shift your energy from masculine to feminine, and take practical daily steps toward the radiant version of you. We don’t just talk about change, we create it together.
Q: What if I don’t have children? Is this still for me?
Absolutely, 100% yes. This work is for ALL women, whether you have children or not.
If you don’t have children, you’re healing the little girl inside you who learned to disappear. You’re breaking the patterns you inherited from your mother so they don’t continue to run your life. You’re creating a future where YOU get to thrive, not just survive.
You don’t need children to deserve radiance. You deserve it simply because you exist.
Q: What does a session actually look like?”
We meet online via Zoom, one-on-one, from wherever you are in the world. That’s the beauty of this work; you could be anywhere and I’m just a click away.
Sessions are a full 60 minutes, typically every two weeks (bi-weekly). This gives you time to implement what we discuss and see real shifts between sessions.
Between our calls, you have access to me via Voxer messaging Monday through Friday. So if you’re struggling, if you have a breakthrough, if you need accountability or guidance, I’m right there with you.
We’re in this together. You’re not doing it alone.
Q :I’m worried about the money. Can I really afford this?”
I completely understand, finances are personal and I respect that. Here’s what I want you to consider:
You can’t afford to stay stuck for another 5, 10, 15 years. You can’t afford to keep modeling exhaustion and depletion for your children. You can’t afford to keep disappearing in your own life.
The cost of NOT investing in yourself is so much higher.
That said, I offer payment plans because I genuinely want this work to be accessible to women who are ready. Let’s talk on our free discovery call and figure out what works for you.
Q: What if my partner doesn’t support me doing this?
Here’s the truth I wish someone had told me earlier: When YOU shift your energy, his energy shifts too. You don’t need his permission to prioritize yourself. You don’t need his approval to heal.
You just need to choose YOU.
And here’s what I’ve seen happen over and over: When you stop doing his job (operating in masculine energy), when you stop training him to be the princess, when you step into your feminine energy and start receiving… he either steps up into his masculine role, or he reveals that he was never your person to begin with.
Either way, you win. Because you’re no longer disappearing.
READY TO START YOUR RADIANCE VOYAGE?
Let’s Talk—Book Your Free Discovery Call
On this call, we’ll talk honestly about where you are right now, where you want to be, and exactly how I can support you in getting there.
No pressure. No pushy sales tactics. Just clarity, compassion, and a real conversation about your transformation.
Queen, I know exactly what it feels like to stand in that kitchen, exhausted, invisible, wondering if this is really all there is.
I know what it’s like to watch the man you chose grab his juice and cake and walk away while you’re drowning.
I know what it’s like to lose your mother too soon and promise yourself you’ll be different, but not know HOW.
I know what it’s like to look at your children and realize they’re learning all the wrong lessons about love, about worth, about what women deserve.
I know. Because I lived it.
But here’s what I also know: You don’t have to stay there.
The radiant version of you, the one who rests without guilt, who sets boundaries without apology, who attracts what she deserves instead of settling for crumbs, she already exists.
She’s not someday. She’s not when you lose the weight or when life calms down or when the kids are older.
She’s right now. She’s always been right now.
You just have to ask yourself every single day: “What does SHE need?”
And then, this is the important part, you have to give it to her.
The cycle ends with you. Not because you’re perfect or because you have it all figured out.
Because you’re brave enough to choose yourself anyway.
Let’s break the cycle together. ✨
With all my love,
Nicky
Radiance Voyage
“For my mother, who couldn’t break free.
For my sons, who will learn to honor women by watching me honor myself.
For my daughter, who will never have to learn to shrink.
And for you, the woman reading this right now in your own kitchen, wondering if life can be different.
It can. And I’ll show you how.”